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Fateful purchase

What is the best purchase you have ever made?

I have a couple of favourite books and a teddy and they are high on the list. While everything comes and goes they still remain. Strangely though, they weren’t purchases as such. The books were sent to me as a kid’s art prize. Instead of receiving a single book there appeared to be some kind of mix up and I was sent a second. The adjudicators allowed me to keep ‘The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe’ and it became my favourite childhood book. The teddy was a replacement after a family holiday. I felt guttered and by the time it was purchased, the original teddy was discovered languishing in the bottom of my sleeping bag. The books are still side by side on the shelf while the teddies remain together to this day. Sometimes the best purchases are the ones you fail to appreciate at the time. Years ago I cobbled together some savings and with the help of an advisor, opened a small investment account. It was this single purchase that helped me attain financial freedom so many years later.

YouTube

How do you use social media?

In the early day of social media I was drawn to YouTube because it seemed different. Videos were a bit amateurish and fun and you felt connected to the people that made them. Of course this has changed just as the internet itself has changed. With increasing corporate interest and with AI, much of it is indistinguishable from mainstream media. Now of course, YouTube is a behemoth. There are videos of every conceivable subject from the sublime to the ridiculous (and everything in between). The offbeat content is still there but so is the informative including news channels and informed opinion otherwise inaccessible from mainstream media. It is the opportunity to see this nuanced and alternative opinion that’s interesting. There are channels featuring those with like minded interests by the zillion and you can easily fall into the time wastage trap. And herein lies the paradox: are you able to consciously monitor the content, or are you merely a passive recipient of algorithm‑driven material? Is the content actually constructive in the sense that it is informative or is it really reinforcing set narratives? Are you subject to increasingly addictively driven content that you are unable to resist? Maybe you can find the answers on YouTube 🙂

Gratitude

So if you reframe your perception of experience to include gratitude it is possible to shift from a negative to a positive attitude. If you allow this to happen enough in everyday experiences, a subtle but fundamental change can occur in your personality. Those around you respond to your positivity, and they in turn take on positive energy – a kind of flow from one person to another. Conversely, the opposite may occur whereby negativity flows from one individual to the next. We see this increasingly occurring on the internet, especially on social media. In turn, there is a flow of negative energy in the wider community from the virtual world to the real world. Interpreting ideas, concepts, situations or experiences can include positive or negative evaluation. A choice can be made to see things positively. Without meaning to sound too grandiose, we need to energise ourselves and the community in positive ways. Ultimately and depending on the intensity of our experiences, we can reframe them positively.

Inspiration

What is something others do that sparks your admiration?

There is someone in my life who continues to demonstrate patience, passion and resilience as if from an endless spring. They manage the day to day stresses and trials that life continues to throw at them without shirking or complaining while showing kindness and compassion to those around them. They have done this for decades and continue to do so to this day. This someone has endured life’s hardships while showing gratitude with a smile. I have witnessed them experience the death of two husbands and more recently, cancer and hospitalisation at ninety. They battle on and inspire others with their tenacity and positivity, their ideas, their love and passion. They paint, they sculpt, practice craftwork – in many and varied forms – and sell their work in retail shops indicative of quality and take up. They have worked for the Red Cross, taught in hospitals and brought up a family. Asked whether they would do it all over again and their answer is ‘yes’ without question. This may seem a tall order but they don’t see it as such and they take it all in their stride. Yes, my mother sparks my admiration.